Walking in the Cemetery

Perry Sprawls

 

 

Frequently, when I go back to visit family in the community where I was born and grew up, I go out to the local cemetery just to walk through, remember, and reflect on the many family members, friends, and acquaintances who are now interred there.  As time passes on, I know many more there than who are alive in the community.

When I stop at the graves of some who were very special to me it is amazing what memories come up in my mind. I can see them as they were and remember the things about them that made them special in my life.

 Especially the interest they took in me along the way. 

This one is very special to me and always my first to visit.

It is a reality that the memories in my mind are perhaps the last remaining comprehensive records of many of these lives, and that they will eventually be gone forever.  There will be some official records including birth and death certificates which provide facts but not the stories of the lives as I remember.  Published obituaries might contain some biographical information but the focus is more on dying than living.

Fortunately, now with modern technology and the internet I can use my memories along with some other resources, especially family pictures, to create permanent memorials that will be available to others, even after the memories in my mind are lost for ever. 

Charlotte Edith Williams Sprawls (1935-2023) - Find a Grave Memorial

 

 

 

 These can be used to form virtual representations of physical cemeteries and columbariums  that can be “walked through” or visited from anywhere in the world.  

The Old Sprawls Family Cemetery

The Williston, SC Community Cemetery
Many Family Members and Friends

The Black Mountain Presbyterian Church Columbarium

The Black Mountain Presbyterian Church All Interments

Western Carolina State Veterans Cemetery in Black Mountain, North Carolina

 

 Memorials Created by Perry Sprawls
All Locations

My mission now is to work with families creating permanent memorials of those who have passed on, especially before the memories in our minds are gone forever.

sprawls@emory.edu